“THERE IS A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN MAKING SURE THAT YOU DO, THE THING THAT IS FOR YOUR BEST INTEREST, OR DOING THINGS FOR SELF GAIN.”

You have the right to do what is the best for you in every situation, no exceptions
and that means that you are watching out for yourself,
That you listen to yourself,
Your feelings, emotions, intuition, your guidance
and that you don’t go against yourself and your needs, desires
(no obligations, no expectations).

You are only responsible for yourself
and for your kids if you have them
(Until they are able to take responsibility themselves).

That doesn’t mean that you take advantage of other people,
that you see only yourself,
that you do things only for your self gain.
Looking for your best interest is not equal to self gain.
There is a big difference.